I am asked this question time and time again so I thought I would go ahead and give my answer. A life coach is just that....a coach who helps you with life. People hire personal trainers to come along and help them learn new skills to gain control over their health and lifestyle and when necessary make some changes. A life coach works in pretty much the same way except they cover anything and everything pertaining to life. The range and scope practice can vary from coach to coach just it does from one personal trainer to another. Surprisingly many personal trainers are also life coaches.
My scope of practice focuses mostly on personal coaching to include relationship, dating, career, life skills just to name a few. I also cross over into the professional arena with Corporate, Leadership and Professional Coaching.
Life coaches are not counselors or Psychologists who will talk with you about your past or counsel you with therapy and a good life coach should refer you to a licensed professional who can help you through your issues such as depression, survivors or victims of abuse, drug addiction/rehabilitation, alcoholism, etc.
I have been coaching on a personal level with my friends and family my entire life and I have decided that it's time to offer my services professionally since I have acquired so much success in what I have shared with my inner circle.
A life coach should never judge you for your actions or choices and they should never make you feel uncomfortable or push their own agenda on you. Talking to your life coach should be the safest place for you to talk with trust and understanding. Life coaching is truly an art and a gift and not everyone who claims to be a life coach should be coaching.
Life coaches are like cheerleaders who come along beside you and encourage and support you while you work to achieve your goals. For example, if your goal is to become more organized then as your coach I would talk with you about the obstacles that hold you back from getting and staying organized and then we would brainstorm some solutions and we would meet up in another week to check your progress. We keep you motivated, focused and we hold you accountable but we never hurt you, abuse you or berate you if you should not meet one of your goals.
Life coaches also do Corporate Coaching for businesses such as leadership training to help the employee transition from the role of entry level to management/supervisory role. We also go further in depth with leadership training and teach the core fundamentals of what makes a good leader. For example, there is a difference between a leader and a tyrant as well as good leaders lead by example not by force.
On a last note, a good life coach should teach you skills that carry over into EVERY area of your life. They should also give you good references and have a ready answer for how and why they are life coaches. They are usually life long students themselves and possess an ability to make you feel at home with talking about yourself or anything personal. They encourage you and energize you with their magnetic personalities. They are also usually catalysts and the choices they make for their own lives usually make people think on a deep level and pose questions....such as "How did you overcome _________ in your life?"
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